I started going to a Mahjong group recently; we meet once a fortnight and I love it 🩷 The lovely woman who runs it is from NZ and from an East Asian culture, she’s a fab social glue kind of a person opting to teach a small group of us. She’s excited to get us […]
healthy relationships
Doing Everything For Everyone
Committing to something or someone is a process, of course it is, but when it comes to relationship’s mums are still – in 2025 – carrying out most of the domestic and childcare chores. As divorce lawyer on insta says: Mothers are expected to work like they don’t have childrenAnd parent like they don’t have […]
Getting Your Needs Met
Does this sound like you? You’re stressed, very busy being busy, not coming up for air. Does it mean you’re not making time for yourself because… Other people’s needs are taking priority. You don’t want to let people down. You don’t want to let yourself down. When It Feels Too Much But sometimes you just […]



Health challenges in early childhood kick-started a Sherlock curiosity in cause and effect.