Lily Allen on Later accompanied by Jules Hollandsinging THREE epitomises the challenges of being torn
How did you get on with the scaling? Did you have a play? Are you game? If so let me know what results you got from it, just hit reply to this message.
Now I want to tell you a little about the changes that are coming. as you can see there’s a new momentum in town and all I can say is that I’ve finally found my Work Hat mojo.
Anyone who’s worked with me one-to-one or in one of my many group workshops knows I’m playful, and encourage the same in you, and you already know that. I don’t believe personal development should be as serious as it’s cracked up to be, after all we’re on a trajectory for change throughout our lives.
Why should choosing to change be made such a big deal of, when we ought to celebrate anyone who has the chutzpah it takes to call time on the-elephant-in-the-room? This was what Zena said about working together (her name’s been changed)
“I saw Jane for a range of hormone and weight related symptoms. It’s resulted in me feeling more self-confident and lead to making the personal and career changes I’d been putting off. This has made such a big difference in how I deal with and behave around difficult people. She struck the right balance, the process was gentle, yet she was direct when I needed it. I’m now in control of my eating and my life, which has improved in every way for the better.” Zena – Kent
So although client’s & student’s weren’t being affected in their outcome, I was conflicted in how I felt I was ‘supposed’ to advertise and network. I wasn’t relaxed about it because it wasn’t reflecting me. Can you relate?
Then recently I had a big shift which is bringing me into simpatico so that I’m allowing everything I am into everything I do.
And I want to invite you to step into all that your personality brings to the party, no matter who you’re with, or what you’re doing.
The reason it’s so important is that people love personality, it’s playful and individualistic. And then when we’re relaxed we’re able to have clarity because we’re not worrying about what other people think about us, i.e. we’re either a good fit or we’re not and when we’re relaxed we’re tuned into it.
It means you’re open to giving and receiving in the moment, because the little things not only mean a lot but they help build rapport, which stops us from coming over as unintentionally disingenuous. Is this ringing any bells?
My challenge to you today is to see which parts of your life are out-of-sync so you can be as relaxed as hell-yeah YOU. Do you overly accommodate other people or situations and let them override what you genuinely want?
I can’t recommend being openly you highly enough.
Until next time.